Adam Van Allen, B.S., Certified Professional Mentor

My Journey

After struggling with depression, anxiety, and sexual addiction for 16 years, I found healing through mentoring and community support. In 2018, I reached my breaking point with pornography and sexual addiction. Traditional advice—like simply reading the Bible more or praying more—wasn't sufficient. Through structured guidance, I found freedom by surrendering to God and being honest with both Him and my wife.

I'll walk alongside you, using the same life-changing resources that helped me break free from addiction through God's guidance.

About Surrender 2 Victory LLC

We provide Christ-centered mentoring for men struggling with sexual addiction, helping them reclaim their lives through a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ.

Our Approach

Our personalized mentoring combines:

Christ-centered framework with spiritual and physical disciplines
Military-style discipline for healing and spiritual warfare
Trauma-informed methodology with accountability

Qualifications

I bring both professional training and personal experience:

80+ hour professional certification through Bravehearts
Seven years of personal recovery from sexual addiction
11½-year Army career with leadership experience

Program Structure

Our program includes weekly confidential sessions, guided assignments, and mentor-led discussions. Recovery typically requires 2-5 years, with the first year being most intensive. Client responsibility is crucial to success.

Confidentiality

All communications are strictly confidential with limited exceptions required by law.

Investment

$160 monthly

Getting Started

Schedule a free consultation to determine if this program aligns with your recovery goals.

When you join our personalized mentoring program, each session offers a safe, judgment-free space for your recovery journey from sexual and pornography addiction. Here's what you can expect:We begin with a warm, confidential check-in (10-15 minutes) where you can freely share your struggles, victories, and current challenges. This creates the foundation of trust essential for your healing process.

The heart of our session (approximately 40 minutes) dives into that week's transformative curriculum. Together, we'll explore powerful concepts specifically designed for sexual addiction recovery. I'll guide our conversation with questions that prompt deeper insights and share relevant experiences that will help you understand your patterns and develop healthier coping strategies.

Each session concludes (final 10 minutes) with practical next steps, setting achievable goals, and crafting a meaningful commitment to change that you can implement immediately in your daily life. Your journey includes specially selected readings, reflective journaling exercises, and practical workbook activities that address the root causes of addictive behaviors. These proven resources support your recovery process and facilitate lasting transformation - ultimately strengthening your marriage, parenting abilities, and most importantly, your relationship with Jesus.-

Seven Pillars of Freedom* serves as our primary curriculum for breaking free from sexual addiction. *Pure Desire* is a required supplemental text that deepens your understanding of recovery principles. Additional resources may be recommended based on your specific needs and recovery goals.

If you've tried everything on your own without success and need help with healing, please reach out—I'd be more than happy to talk with you. Having gone through this experience myself, I understand how crucial it is to have someone on your side. By that, I mean someone who won't judge you but will challenge you and share their own experience to help you through difficult times. God bless you. I look forward to hearing from you soon. My email and phone number are below if you'd like to text or email me with questions.